Who am I.....................?
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...I mean really..............,
WHO am I?
This week, Claudiney hit his first major crisis since the
cowardly killing of his younger brother and street kid Roney two months ago . Or rather; his first major crisis has hit him!
Incredibly, until a few days ago, he had not missed a single day in school; neither did he miss out on activities at Hummingbird nor the treatment with his therapist. But like a whirlwind makes its dramatic entrance into the scene on an apparently calm day - - twisting everything in its distorted pathway, Claudiney’s mind suddenly took a turn down a similar pathway this week, creating total confusion and a strong desire to give up everything; no more school; no more Hummingbird; no more therapy............. and no more Gregory (at least for the time being).
10 days ago I expressed my happines for all the positive developments we were experiencing together, but I also mentioned that
“Unfortunately we know only too well that the rough ride he has ahead of him is a slow and arduous process”.
It’s always a saddening experience to see any street kid go downhill so suddenly during recuperation, even if I have been expecting this crisis for quite some time now. To be honest, I would have been more surprised if it hadn’t come because it is a necessary and valuable experience if Claudiney is to take responsibility and make judgement over his own life.
Try explaining what is good and what’s bad to a kid with seven years of street history. Forget it! You will merely waste a considerable amount of energy. He needs to live the experience, both the good and the bad, to feel the difference.......... and this time it
will be different because he no longer has a brother at his side to manipulate his decisions. They will be his and his alone.
At least we have given him two new solid months of loving baggage which he didn’t have before. Nobody can take that away from him............
As I always emphasize in this game; although drugs play an important part in the life of any street kid,
it is streetlife itself that is the heaviest drug and the hardest one to come off...................
Comments
Excellent!!:((
Posted 4 months ago.
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it's all part of the mourning process, of
course this kid lives it extra intense due to
his social background (and perhaps glue
addiction 'nd stuff) .. hopefully you keep
giving him the support he deserves ... it
makes me feel sad in a way too, but I can't
do anything more than donate and support your
organisation I guess
about the photo : again a nice shot, the
same Harley, kewl
Posted 4 months ago.
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Excellent work.
Posted 4 months ago.
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It goes without saying that I hope he comes
around again. One of the hardest parts of
our work (as I suppose it is to be a parent
too) is to love them completely, guide them
the best we can, and not become too attached
to our projected ideas of how thier lives to
should look. Keep us posted Gregory. Un
abrazo fuerte.
Posted 4 months ago.
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Posted 4 months ago.
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Thinking about you
big hug
Posted 4 months ago.
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Good luck to Claudiney. Stand strong!
Posted 4 months ago.
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Hold fast claudiney!!!!
Posted 4 months ago.
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Let's hope and pray that the love Claudiney
experienced over the last two months will
bring him back to a safer place. It must be
heartbreaking to watch this happen, even
though you know it is part of the process if
he's going to break the cycle of being a
street kid. I'll keep him in my prayers.
Posted 4 months ago.
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Yeah, Greg,
I always thought that the unbridled freedom
of street life, in spite of its hardships,
must be very addictive... freedom is such a
powerful human desire. Carl Gustav Jung used
to say that there are only 2 types of truly
free individuals in human society: artists
and criminals. I thank God everyday that I
(aspire to) belong to the former, otherwise
I'd be a strong candidate for the latter,
such is the urge for freedom. Art and the
freedom of the mountains.
Claudiney must learn alternative ways to be
FREE. That's his only hope to leave the
streets.
Posted 4 months ago.
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Greg,
something just occurred to me: maybe he's
just testing you and the safety net you
people have provided him. Maybe he wants to
make sure it is not being imposed on him. In
his place, I would do that. Particularly as,
having gone through everything he has gone
through, it mus t be very difficult for him
to trust (both people and life in general).
Posted 4 months ago.
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Irene,
Their misunderstanding of freedom is a big
problem for them due to their street living
experiences. We have to offer them positive
alternatives to facilitate their choice of
freedom; real or false.......
Street kids are forever testing out the
adults who surround them, it's all part of
their "game". A major problem in
recuperating them is the insecurity of the
adults who form the inner circle of their
lives. Usually the adults in their home
environment have very little control over
these kid's decision-making and even though
they try to keep things under control, they
are often inconsequential in their attitudes
towards the kids, believing that this will
keep the peace. To the contrary, this creates
more insecurity in the child and usually
helps them head back to the streets where
life is really no different because they are
the ones who feel they are in control of the
situation.
For sure Claudiney is testing my know-how
to see how far I will stretch. When he sees
that I don't agree with his rules of the game
he will have a desire to back out because
he's afraid of losing control, something he
has always had over his family. Most street
kids are in complete control over their
families therefore conflicts are more than
common. In reality, he feels much more secure
in our environment because there are clear
enough rules to follow, which he must if he
wants what we have to offer. This is as far
as we will impose upon him. If the desire is
strong enough he will come around once he's
sorted things out a little clearer in his
mind, but unfortunately this process is not
so easy as there will be many others who will
negatively interfere during this thought
process that will inevitably set him back a
few paces, demanding a lot of extra effort
from us to get him back to where he last left
off. It is quite the cat & mouse game.
Thanks for caring! - Gregory
Posted 4 months ago.
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he's a magical boy..... really his smiles
they just ohh
Posted 2 months ago.
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